We tell ourselves we are bad and hold on to that badness, unwilling to forgive ourselves.
We feel guilty for not always doing the right things or not treating others as we should.
OK, I understand feeling bad for wronging someone.
Or taking a toy from a baby.
Or tripping a stranger and running away.
But, for eating a cookie??
Please, we have enough to criticize ourselves for.
Who's the jerk that vindicated the eating of delicious foods like a big juicy cheeseburger or a hot fudge sundae with all the fixings? I'd like to have a word or two with this person. Clearly, said person gets off on sucking joy out of life.
Associating "badness" with foods is a wasted, negative-energy filled effort.
There is nothing innately angelic about sitting down to a slice of fruit as opposed to a slice of cake. The only thing that happens when we label certain foods as "good" or "bad" is that we label ourselves as "good" or "bad" for eating them.
This goes hand in hand with being on a diet (I shudder at the word, itself) that has restrictions that define what is and isn't allowed. The dieter is then subject to many opportunities to cheat if the diet isn't followed, thus feeling the resulting guilt from eating the bad items.
So much negativity!
I ate a french fry the other day. I do not think myself to be a bad person.
We are responsible for how we treat our bodies. The hope is that we choose foods that support optimal health while also allowing ourselves to have foods that have little nutritional value, but great enjoyment value.
We live in a world where these nutritionally-devoid, pure enjoyment-value foods exist.
Instead of barring ourselves from them and creating feelings of guilt when we succumb to their allure, why not just accept their deliciousness and learn to coexist with them?
Step one is to remove labels of "goodness" or "badness" from foods.
Step two is to honor our health by feeding it the wholesome nutrition it needs.
Step three is to be gentle with ourselves and allow ourselves the wiggle room to enjoy those "other" foods for the pure sake of enjoying them.
We have enough to combat in this world. Let's leave the negative energy to the wars, crimes and offenses.
Food is too delicious for all that negativity.