But, she's no psychic.
She picks up the most subtle of cues in my mother's voice when she speaks and senses her energy, even from halfway across the world, in Korea.
But, my mom believes my grandmother to have superhuman, prophetic powers.
And therefore thinks her word to be the be all end all.
Good or bad.
Grandma has told my mom to pursue business opportunities in the past because she felt they were sure to be successful. She's told her to have patience with me because she knew I would eventually come to my senses. She's told her to have faith in my father because he would do the right thing in the end.
And each time she's been right.
Don't get me wrong, my grandmother has a powerful gift of intuition that she's strengthened over the years and it is awe inspiring, nonetheless. But, I can't help but wonder, what's really going on here?
As much as I enjoy imagining my grandmother like this...
I'm thinking more that there's a self-fulfilling prophecy effect happening here.
My mom trusts her own mother's judgment, putting faith in her words, never questioning their validity. If Grandma says it will be one way, so it will be.
Most of her "visions" happen to be of positive nature, with my mother's best interest always in mind. Naturally. Every mother wishes the best for her child.
When my mom gets off the phone with Grandma, she's always filled with not only wonder and amazement, but, most importantly, hope.
Hearing my grandmother's encouraging words fills my mom with positive energy, illuminating her outlook on the future. Grandma assures my mom that everything will be okay- so it will be.
Without hope, a positive attitude or trust that things can and will go the way we will them to, the already unpredictable future becomes overshadowed with with anxiety-provoking unease.
To shine a bright light on our perspectives, seeking out the best possible outcome, and putting faith and energy in to pursuing that beautiful prize greatly increases the probability of success without even having to make the first move.
Our minds are more powerful than we can ever imagine.
We all have the ability to damn ourselves from the beginning by believing the worst will happen...
We can confidently have faith in ourselves and our individual greatness from the get-go.
Sometimes we need that "It's all going to be okay" push of positive energy from someone we love and trust to bolster our potential.
But, how wonderful would it be if we could each start from within and be our own greatest source of positive reinforcement?